How we can raise boys to become better men
Gender-based violence (GBV) remains a critical issue in South Africa, with alarming statistics revealing that 25-40% of women have experienced sexual and/or physical Intimate Partner Violence in their lifetime. The award-winning film “Reflections” was created for the Centre for Analytics and Behavioural Change (CABC) during the 2020 lockdown, a time when GBV incidents spiked dramatically.
The Cycle of Violence: How Boys Become Abusive Men
Reflections is a haunting film that takes a unique approach to addressing GBV. Rather than focusing on the victims or survivors, it emphasizes that the cycle of violence starts and ends with men. The film highlights how boys who learn violence often grow into abusive men, perpetuating a cycle that impacts generations.
Broad Reach and Powerful Message: A Call for Responsibility
The film was widely broadcast across multiple platforms, including social media, SABC, DSTV, and Taxi TV, reaching diverse audiences. The message, “Men. Enough is enough,” squarely places the responsibility on men to stop the violence. However, the film also calls on parents, teachers, community leaders, and religious institutions to play their part in raising boys to be kind, respectful, and to challenge harmful gender stereotypes.
Continuing the Fight: The Relevance of “Reflections” Today
Despite being produced in 2020, the film’s message is as relevant today as ever, as GBV continues to be a crisis in South Africa. Reflections urges viewers to speak out against violence, challenge misogyny, and address gender inequality, which often leads to men feeling entitled to women’s bodies without consent.
In the 21st century, it’s crucial to re-evaluate cultural norms and traditions that normalize the abuse of women and children. This is why we call on male allies to join our community in changing opinions, behaviours, and ultimately, the societal structures that perpetuate gender-based violence.
Share Reflections with your network and spark meaningful conversations around these critical issues. Together, we can create a safer, more equitable world for all.
