Learn how to dialogue with an abusive man
We created three different videos to help you have difficult conversations with men who may be violent and abusive. You can be a change agent in your community and help to end the cycle of violence and hatred towards women and children.
Skill Kit Video 1: Mastering the Art of Listening
Listening is more than just hearing words—it’s about creating a connection that fosters trust, empathy, and understanding. In this video, we explore how mastering the art of listening can be a powerful tool in building stronger relationships. By truly listening, we can avoid unnecessary conflicts and misunderstandings that often arise from assumptions or miscommunication. When we listen to the stories and experiences of others, we not only gain insight into their lives but also reflect on our own beliefs and behaviours. This deeper understanding can be transformative, helping us to support others more effectively and fostering a culture of respect and open communication. Whether in conversations with loved ones or when engaging with men who may need guidance, listening with intention and empathy is the first step toward meaningful change.
Skill Kit Video 2: The Power of Asking the Right Questions
Asking the right questions is a gateway to deeper conversations and more meaningful connections. In this video, we delve into the skill of questioning—how to craft questions that not only seek answers but also invite reflection and self-awareness. Effective questioning can uncover underlying issues that might otherwise remain hidden and can lead to breakthroughs in understanding and communication. By learning to ask thoughtful, open-ended questions, you can guide conversations in a way that encourages others to explore their own thoughts and feelings, leading to more authentic and constructive dialogues. Whether you’re helping someone to reflect on their actions or simply trying to understand their perspective better, mastering the art of questioning is an essential skill in fostering positive change and growth.
Skill Kit Video 3: Taking a Stand Against Misogyny and Hatred
Confronting hatred, especially towards women, requires courage, compassion, and a commitment to change. This video emphasises the importance of being a man of action—someone who doesn’t just stand by but actively engages in conversations that challenge harmful attitudes and behaviours. By initiating these tough but necessary dialogues with other men, you play a crucial role in dismantling the toxic beliefs that fuel gender-based violence. It’s not just about calling out bad behaviour—it’s about engaging constructively, offering alternative perspectives, and guiding others towards respect and equality. These conversations are pivotal in breaking the cycle of abuse and creating a safer, more just society for everyone. By confronting misogyny head-on, you become part of the solution, helping to protect and uplift women and contribute to a culture of mutual respect.
